Friendzoned


Have u ever been "Friendzone"? Its most painful word and more painful are the feelings who are going through this. At sometime you would have tout why me? What's the problem with me?. The problem is not you; your behavior towards them.

You would be amazing guy/girl and would do anything for them but you wont fit in it because you give too much priority to them and always available when needed. They start taking you for granted, This makes them feel even if they wont don anything, you will be there for them. I know being best friend is good but you need to maintain some space. 
Following are some tips which will help you from being Friendzone.


1. Don't show your love or confess how much you love them unless and until the feeling is mutual. 
2. Don't give toooooo much priority to "only" them. Don't make them your world but a part of your world. 
3. Don't be always available for them; pretend you have some work or show off as you are going out with someone else. Chill out with other friends as well.
4. Don't call frequently, Let them call you or message you first.
5. Give them space to miss you and to know your importance.
6. Don't misunderstand the term Best Buddies to Love; sometime we like to hangout with our friend but love is something more passionate.

Remember Love can't be forced its should be mutual feelings from both side. Sometime the situation are wrong, sometime the person doesn't feel the same for you.  Wait for signs and then react because Its always better to be friend than being Friendzone.

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