Friends with Benefits
Friends with Benefits
“Friends with Benefits” (FWB) is basically two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved or any kind of commitment. Here partners can date someone else at any time with prior warning. Friends with benefits differs from a one night stand as it is the matter of one day even if it is done with friends.
Note
· Do not indulge in for the sake of it or to show off and never ever take decision because of peer pressure.
· Make it clear in the beginning that you are not dating; you're just having fun in order to avoid misunderstanding.
· In such relationship both the partners should have same feelings of attraction or indulgence to take such relationship forward. One partner cannot force some other for his/her pleasures.
· Also it is very difficult to say what holds in future we can’t predict. Sometime a person who have taught he/she won’t be serious in relationship often ends up falling for the other because of the time they spent or get to know about more each other during the FWB period.
Tips to be followed
· Friends with benefits relationships often end because one person starts falling for the other. Go out of for a hot hook up partner, not your ideal husband or wife category type there are chances you would end up falling for that person
· Be nice, but not loving. Don't do things a real couple would do.
· Remember, you are not in a serious relationship. Make sure you feel comfortable doing this.
· Always keep your FWB relationship secret
Basic rules of FWB
It is very tricky to navigate the territory between friendship and courtship without hurting anyone. Follow a few basic rules given below and you will enjoy safely.
Choose Right friend:- Pick someone whom you know well and he/she is single and has experienced in FWB and both of you feel attracted towards each other and are ready for this without any emotional attachment. Typically friends with benefits relationships only last a few months, so don't pick someone you know you'll have to see all the time.
Start the Relationship: - Start flirting with the person by teasing, playfully touching, you can start kissing or doing something more. Enjoy some hot sex that’s what having friends with benefits is for. Let loose, experiment, try new poses, have sex in kinky locations, and throw caution to the wind. Make sure that you won't see each other too often.
Keep Enjoying the Benefits: - Don't forget to see other people as you are free and this is the important perk in FWB relationship.
Advantages of FWB
· Sex and a lot of hot Sex but safe sex.
· It's a good way to experiment sexual fantasies especially when you are shy where you could indulge in without thinking too much.
· Freedom from commitments, Free to find always new partner.
· Anyone can have FWB relationship at any age unless he/she is not into steady relationship or married.
· Your self-esteem sky rockets, and you don’t have any of the emotional roller coasters of a real relationship.
Disadvantages of FWB
· It Doesn’t Last Longer. After the initial thrill is gone, it leaves both partners feeling used and empty in the end.
· Wasting of Time. This type of relationship gives pleasure but at some point you need a true love who care for you unconditionally at that time you will find alone and you would think you would have wasted a lot time on a dead-end relationship.
· Substitute for real life. Friends with benefits is like junk food which satisfy your hunger initially but carry no nutrition in your life
· It doesn’t help you to be good person. When you are in such relationship, you don’t give a chance to yourself to indulge in true relationship. You end up cheating as you have cultivated the habit from FWB. It doesn’t allow you to learn and grow as a person, a genuine relationship helps you to be responsible, compromise and adapt things.
· Health issues. Given the casual nature of these encounters, there is no guarantee that you would be able to know the full romantic history of a prospective partner there is always risk attached to your health with disease like HIV, AIDS or some infection.
Facts
· Main reasons that a friends with benefits relationship ends; one person gets too attached, one person finds someone else he really wants to date, or both people just get bored and want to move on.
· There is a natural time-based end to the relationship.
· Once you have a feeling that it may be over, then it's over.
· FWB is not only for younger people
· State study found that only 10 percent of FWB arrangements end in real romantic relationships.
In today’s convenience-obsessed world, people love the concept of “instant” and expect everything to come easy. The same thing goes with relationships where “no strings attached” type of arrangement comes into picture because of the modern living but as said everything comes at a steep price!!!
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