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Friendzoned

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Have u ever been "Friendzone"? Its most painful word and more painful are the feelings who are going through this. At sometime you would have tout why me? What's the problem with me?. The problem is not you; your behavior towards them. You would be amazing guy/girl and would do anything for them but you wont fit in it because you give too much priority to them and always available when needed. They start taking you for granted, This makes them feel even if they wont don anything, you will be there for them. I know being best friend is good but you need to maintain some space.  Following are some tips which will help you from being Friendzone. 1. Don't show your love or confess how much you love them unless and until the feeling is mutual.  2. Don't give toooooo much priority to "only" them. Don't make them your world but a part of your world.  3. Don't be always available for them; pretend you have some work or show off as you...

Loving two people same time!

Can we really love two people at same time? Most of them will say "No" but the answer is "Yes" we can. When we can have so many friends, share same emotional space with many at same time then why it is not possible to fall in love with two people?. The reason to fall in love may differ person to person and every individual is unique in its own way. You may love one thing of the other and the other thing of someone else. The idea of perfect soulmate is good but it doesn't work in many cases except those lucky ones. Leaving behind the Indian tradition/society where the significant other is always seen as the murderer; even person who  falls in love does not accept the fact of loving two people at same time. But the matter here is how to know or how to take decision when you fall in such situation. The best thing is take your time ask questions and then decide and compare.  Why you love them?   Can you see future with them? The situation is not be co...

Heart knows no limits

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What if you ever fell in Love with committed person?Heart knows no limits and boundaries; it only know is to love!!!!!!!!!!!!. Many would have already raised your eyebrows with first line of my post. Many won't agree on this post thinking i am justifying the love and provoking someone to cheat their partners. My post is not about breaking someone's relationship but its about love; a person who does it knowing the other will never be with them Many avoid this type of relationship but are u really able to avoid it after falling in Love? Emotions are beyond your control especially love. You simply don't have an idea when you start loving them. Again this love is not about physical attraction or benefits looked for outside the marriage/ relationship.  This love is about the emotional connection between the too which surpasses all other things. If your love is one sided then you are saved  at least  you will realize it one day they were never yours. What if the oth...